Halima Nwakego, the former wife of Bashir El-Rufai, son of former Kaduna State Governor Nasir El-Rufai, has shared insights into her life following the end of her marriage, including her experience as a single mother and living with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Reflecting on her personal journey, Halima spoke candidly about her views on marriage and the challenges that came with her relationship and its eventual breakdown.
She revealed that she and Bashir ended their marriage in July 2024, when their twin children were about two years old.
According to Halima, she had never been particularly confident in the idea of marriage and entered the institution with reservations. However, despite her doubts about marriage, she said she continued to have faith in love.
The end of the relationship marked a difficult period for her, particularly as she adjusted to raising her children while navigating life outside marriage.
Halima also opened up about her experience with ADHD, shedding light on how she has navigated the condition alongside motherhood and other personal challenges.
She described the period after her divorce as one of growth and self-discovery, saying that difficult experiences have forced her to confront different aspects of herself and her life.
The mother of twins also reflected on relationships and heartbreak, acknowledging that life after marriage has come with its own emotional challenges.
Despite the difficulties, Halima said she is focused on moving forward, embracing motherhood and building a life on her own terms.
Her account provides a glimpse into the personal journey of a woman adjusting to single motherhood, life after divorce and the realities of living with ADHD.