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| Deyemi Okanlawon |
Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has opened up about how he copes with pressure, revealing that his wife remains his ultimate source of emotional support during difficult moments.
Speaking in an interview with Dear Ife, the actor said he tries not to burden his wife with his challenges because she is occupied with her own career while also managing their home and family responsibilities.
However, Okanlawon disclosed that when the emotional weight becomes overwhelming, he does not hesitate to wake her in the middle of the night for comfort and support.
Naija Brain reports that the actor stressed that he does not rely solely on his wife for emotional wellbeing, noting that he has intentionally built a support network comprising a therapist, mentors and trusted friends whom he turns to for guidance and encouragement.
He also urged men not to bear life's burdens alone, warning that suppressing emotions could become overwhelming without a healthy support system.
He said, “When the thing is just too hard, there’s my wife. She’s not the first because she’s dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me.”
Okanlawon added, “My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen. There’s no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing.”